Admit you are reliant on a Greater Power than yourself to live with addictive thought patterns and co-dependants who are are not interested in working with efforts and forgiveness, that lives are becoming unmanageable.
Be the solution to your problems as follows: -
- Do not let the criticism of others around you or about the people you love affect you.
- Let go stress and blame.
- Do not control others doing their own thing.
- Set boundaries with those who are without consideration of your needs equally.
- Have authority over your own life and not over the lives of others.
- Nothing can hurt you whilst you rely on your Will Power.
- Concentrate on your own problems to show you the way.
- Avoid justifications for your actions.
- Do not fall into punishment to relieve the others or your own guilt.
- Do not scold and weep.
- Do everything for your own benefit.
- Contemplate on the cause and effect before you do anything.
- Let go of problems that are destroying your peace of mind.
- Concentrate on Peace for detachment from the situation not from the person.
- Express love and compassion.
- Accept the things I can change and accept the things I cannot change.
- Share experiences to open up new and better ways of handling difficulties.
- Accept myself so I can accept others.
- Have no regrets about the past, but learn from mistakes and build a better life from past experiences.
- Do not create your own difficulties.
- Detach from hurt by owning own mistakes and correct own self.
- Do not take on the responsibility for the mistakes of others nor correcting others.
- Own your own pain from how you think and feel about life situations.
- Do not suffer over the actions and reactions of other people.
- Learn from the actions and reactions of others to live a better Life.
- Improve the way you live your own life and the way you look at life.
- Do not worry about the future.
- Trust in the Creator of All.
- Live in the Presence of Peace.
- Have no interest in taking, but in giving and sharing.
- Be interested in selfless service and sharing what you have received.
- Do not exaggerate your unhappiness.
- Smile.
- Examine your ideas of enjoyment, pleasure and delight.
- Set yourself free from any situation that interferes with you from having a decent life and pleasant experiences.
- Live without fear, uncertainty and discomfort.
- Wavering your concentration on Peace, prevents you from breaking out of your present thinking patterns.
- Be responsible for your own likes and dislikes or resentments.
- Do not accept everything life gives you especially if it is humiliating and degrading.
- Do not kill love and respect with accusations, tears, strong voice, self-righteousness and nagging to influence others.
- Grow love and respect with tolerance, patience, kindness, courtesy, love and humor.
- Learn how to live at peace with yourself and others.
- Grow love and respect with tolerance, patience, kindness and courtesy, love and humor.
- Do not identify Names in storytelling to live with faithfulness.
- Do not impulsively say something unkind against anyone which comes from your own guilt and unease.
- Do not criticize others which affects unity, which you are dependent on.
- Do not be a victim of self-pity and resentment.
- Do what feels right.
- Evaluate your own actions and motives.
- Live in line with your own standards and ideals.
- Do what is given to you to do to the best of your ability, which is your security from outer world battering.
- Meditate for guidance.
- Perfect yourself with daily meditation and application.
- Read to gain understanding.
- Substitute positive for negative, patience for impatience, will for I won’t.
- Cultivate happy thoughts.
- Seek out what is good and pleasing instead of focusing on criticizing.
- Replace doubt and fears with faith and confidence.
- Replace boredom with new ways of doing the same thing.
- Serve others to fulfill yourself.
- Care for others who suffer guilt at the hurt they inflict.
- Be patient and compassionate without being a crutch so others can seek help for themselves.
- Do not deprive others of the challenge to meet their own responsibility.
- Meditate to be released from trying to control your situation, to let go and Let life direct you.
- Turn your attention to finding ways to enjoy life by looking for the good.
- Know you are powerless to solve others’ problems, you can only solve your own problems with the help of your own will power of yourself and others.