Be the Solution to your own Problem

Admit you are reliant on a Greater Power than yourself to live with addictive thought patterns and co-dependants who are are not interested in working with efforts and forgiveness, that lives are becoming unmanageable.

• Do not let the criticism of others around you or about the people you love affect you.
• Let go stress and blame.
• Do not control others doing their own thing.
• Set boundaries with those who are without consideration of your needs equally.
• Have authority over your own life and not over the lives of others.
• Nothing can hurt you whilst you rely on your Will Power.
• Concentrate on your own problems to show you the way.
• Avoid justifications for your actions.
• Do not fall into punishment to relieve the others or your own guilt.
• Do not scold and weep.
• Do everything for your own benefit.
• Contemplate on the cause and effect before you do anything.
• Let go of problems that are destroying your peace of mind.
• Concentrate on Peace for detachment from the situation not from the person.
• Express love and compassion.
• Accept the things I can change and accept the things I cannot change.
• Share experiences to open up new and better ways of handling difficulties.
• Accept myself so I can accept others.
• Have no regrets about the past, but learn from mistakes and build a better life from past experiences.
• Do not create your own difficulties.
• Detach from hurt by owning own mistakes and correct own self.
• Do not take on the responsibility for the mistakes of others nor correcting others.
• Own your own pain from how you think and feel about life situations.
• Do not suffer over the actions and reactions of other people.
• Learn from the actions and reactions of others to live a better Life.
• Improve the way you live your own life and the way you look at life.
• Do not worry about the future.
• Trust in the Creator of All.
• Live in the Presence of Peace.
• Have no interest in taking, but in giving and sharing.
• Be interested in selfless service and sharing what you have received.
• Do not exaggerate your unhappiness.
• Smile.
• Examine your ideas of enjoyment, pleasure and delight.
• Set yourself free from any situation that interferes with you from having a decent life and pleasant experiences.
• Live without fear, uncertainty and discomfort.
• Wavering your concentration on Peace, prevents you from breaking out of your present thinking patterns.
• Be responsible for your own likes and dislikes or resentments.
• Do not accept everything life gives you especially if it is humiliating and degrading.
• Do not kill love and respect with accusations, tears, strong voice, self-righteousness and nagging to influence others.
• Grow love and respect with tolerance, patience, kindness, courtesy, love and humor.
• Learn how to live at peace with yourself and others.
• Grow love and respect with tolerance, patience, kindness and courtesy, love and humor.
• Do not identify Names in storytelling to live with faithfulness.
• Do not impulsively say something unkind against anyone which comes from your own guilt and unease.
• Do not criticize others which affects unity, which you are dependent on.
• Do not be a victim of self-pity and resentment.
• Do what feels right.
• Evaluate your own actions and motives.
• Live in line with your own standards and ideals.
• Do what is given to you to do to the best of your ability, which is your security from outer world battering.
• Meditate for guidance.
• Perfect yourself with daily meditation and application.
• Read to gain understanding.
• Substitute positive for negative, patience for impatience, will for I won’t.
• Cultivate happy thoughts.
• Seek out what is good and pleasing instead of focusing on criticizing.
• Replace doubt and fears with faith and confidence.
• Replace boredom with new ways of doing the same thing.
• Serve others to fulfill yourself.
• Care for others who suffer guilt at the hurt they inflict.
• Be patient and compassionate without being a crutch so others can seek help for themselves.
• Do not deprive others of the challenge to meet their own responsibility.
• Meditate to be released from trying to control your situation, to let go and Let life direct you.
• Turn your attention to finding ways to enjoy life by looking for the good.
• Know you are powerless to solve others’ problems, you can only solve your own problems with the help of your own will power of yourself and others.